Seeking Sex Spam

Written by Nexcerpt on November 5th, 2010 in Dating & Online, Patterns & News.

A friend recently pointed out a Facebook page for the Kalamazoo Ballet Historical Building Fund.

I wanted to see more images of the building, so I ran a quick Google search on the unquoted terms historic Kalamazoo Ballet and Bullard Academy. The first five results are as expected: a Manta business profile, their own website, a Wikipedia entry for Kalamazoo, and local news items. The sixth entry is freaky: Free Sugar Daddy & Sugar Baby Dating in Kalamazoo, Michigan.

   Free Sugar Daddy & Sugar Baby Dating in Kalamazoo, Michigan
   Kalamazoo is also home to the Kalamazoo Ballet Company,
   ... Bullard School of Ballet and Highland Dance, founded in 1969
   by Therese Bullard, .... [11] North Burdick St. in 1908 Academy St.
   in 1908 Old public library in 1908 Paper mills in 1908 ....
   Closer to the city center are historical residential areas such as ... - Cached

Huh? How does a site focused primarily on hooking up call girls with generous benefactors rate near the top entries for some historic building in Kalamazoo? It’s simple: Seeking Arrangement is scamming Google. Hard.

Checking the HTML source for that page reveals the trick: Seeking Arrangement has simply stolen the entire Wikipedia entry for Kalamazoo, and hidden it within their own page. It’s visible to Googlebot (so it will be indexed, and attract queries) but it’s not visible to humans using a browser. It’s an old tactic, and a good one — except for it being so misleading, and contrary to most search engines’ inclusion policies.

Midway through the Seeking Arrangement page, the code <div id="wiki"> suggests what’s happening. From that point forward, the page was copied directly from Kalamazoo’s entry in Wikipedia. It’s all there, including the names of local radio stations, theaters, and strange historical trivia. Presumably that borrowing is done programmatically by the same database server that generates the resulting page.

Over 50% of the Seeking Arrangement page is hidden text, copied directly from Wikipedia.

Viewing either the Google excerpt or the Wikipedia page, it’s obvious that other strings should return Seeking Arrangement’s page — and they do. For example, Seeking Arrangement appears as the fifth best match for the quoted phrase, describing a local brewery, “The+most+well+known+is+Bell’s”.

So, please, afficionados of ballet and Bell’s: don’t worry. Every freakin’ neighborhood, school, company, or famous person in Kalamazoo has the same problem!

The last quarter of the page (also hidden text) is a very explicit definition of what happens at Seeking Arrangement. It’s so jam packed with search keywords that I absolutely must repeat it here. [See the end of this entry.] Turnabout is fair play, no?

I’ll admit having an account at Seeking Arrangement, and communicating with several women there, back in 2008. One thing was clear: the women there were crazy and clever! I recall several very attractive women who sent me long, quite customized “personal” notes introducing themselves as hoping for something “more” than a casual connection. When I replied, they became more engaged, asking about my personal interests and style. However, subsequently, they sent along links (sometimes to a video, usually to their own web site) describing the “services” offered, and price. Yes — per hour, per day, or more. One identified herself as a “courtesan,” so that career remains alive and well online.

A quick glance today reveals that Seeking Arrangement has a less exclusive, less exotic, and much less attractive membership today than it did two years ago. Yikes. Much less!

In light of the site’s growing reach, this trick should work for other cities. Take a look at your hometown’s Wikipedia entry, and grab a unique phrase. Looking at Wikipedia for Saginaw, I chose to search the quoted phrase “Saginaw is the largest principal city”.

Oops! We learned more than we were meant to learn: the tenth result is the Saginaw spam trap for another site called Seeking Millionaire. As a sign of how poor the implementation is, this page jumbles together references to Saginaw Michigan, and Saginaw Missouri. Perhaps they assume horny guys won’t notice. LOL

It turns out that manages the seeking millionaire domain, where you can look up the owner’s details:

Tjoei-Lie Oei
71 Clover Crescent
Singapore, Singapore 579232

Administrative Contact:
Technical Contact:
Billing Contact:
InfoStream Group Inc.
Brandon Wade
220 E Flamingo Road
Suite 126
Las Vegas, NV 89169

…which data are the same whether searching for, or I’m willing to bet they own more, but I won’t keep… seeking ;-) Again, the point is not that the trick exists, but that it’s effective. I suspect Seeking [Money For Sex] appears in the top ten results for most five- to ten-word key phrases from the wiki entry for every metropolitan area in North America.

Here then, the hidden text that draws together the poor and / or the working girls of the world with the wealthy and / or the wishful guys of the world. Enjoy! is the premier Sugar Daddy dating website in Kalamazoo, Michigan, United States. On our website a Sugar Daddy is defined as a successful man (regardless of his age) who is generous and a gentleman who knows how to treat his sugar baby. It is however important to note what a Sugar Daddy is not. A sugar daddy is not someone who offers gifts or money in exchange for sexual favors. That would be a John. And while sugar daddies are idolized in our society (think Hugh Hefner), John’s on the other hand are stigmatized (think ex-NY Governor Elliot Spitzer). Also, a sugar daddy does not refer to the candy we all know about. A sugar daddy is also not a singles by The Jackson 5, or a single by Nina Sky, or a song by the Badloves, nor it is a song from the off-Broadway show and film, Hedwig and the Angry Inch. Other terms for a sugar daddy include: benefactor, mentor, sponsor, champion, or supporter.

On, there over 15+ sugar babies for every sugar daddy member. Unlike most online dating websites where members play games and beat around the bush only to be disappointed by the courtship dance. Seeking Arrangement has been named “Best Fishing Hole” in a recent article on the New York Times. The reason is because sugar daddies, sugar mommies and sugar babies understand they can be honest and up front about why they are here and what they are looking for. By being completely upfront, sugar daddies, sugar mommies and sugar babies are able to cut out the game to forge no-drama type relationships that are mutually beneficial to everyone. Sugar Daddie dating is also called benefactor dating, sponsor dating, or mentor dating.

Unlike other sugar daddy dating websites such as,,, or the hundreds of other smaller sugar daddy copy-cats that pop up every other week, is different in that we do not use the term “Sugar Daddy” in our URL domain name. We are also the dating website to feature the most real people from Kalamazoo, Michigan, United States. Our website employs state of the art anti-fraud system to weed out fake profiles, spammers and scammers. We are also the only sugar daddy dating website that is actively redefining the meaning of sugar dating and the sugar lifestyle – that a Sugar Daddy isn’t an old rich man preying on younger women, rather he is a gentleman (irrespective of age) who wants to pamper someone beautiful. We are also the only website to make people understand that one doesn’t have to be a millionaire to be a sugar daddy or sugar mommy, and as long as you are successful, generous and have a disposable income, you too can be a sugar daddy or sugar mommy. features the only sugar daddy blog where issues related to sugar daddy dating are being discussed everyday by real sugar daddies, sugar babies and sugar mommies.

Sugar babies, sugar babe, sugar baby or sugar babes are all ways to refer to men or girls who are looking to be pampered by a sugar daddy or sugar momma. Sugar babies share a number of characteristics, they are all gorgeous, beautiful, attractive, sexy, hot, cute, pretty, sensual and personable. Sugar babes include aspiring actresses, aspiring models, girl next door, new graduates, college freshmen, sophomores, juniors, seniors, dancers, adult entertainers, adult film stars, playboy playmates, penthouse playmates, or single mothers. Sugar babes are also confident, smart, intelligent, capable, and they know what they want and how to work hard to get it. For their part, sugar babies add significant value to the lives of their sugar daddies or sugar mommas, and as such are pampered in return. also caters to those looking for Millionaire dating. However, it’s important to note that one does not need to be a millionaire to be a sugar daddy. One does have to be wealthy man, rich man, successful man, generous man, upscale man, or established man. Of course, being a millionaire or a billionaire doesn’t hurt either, since money can help with the process of romance. Our website boasts hundreds of wealthy men, successful men, generous men, upscale men, established men, and men of substance who are seriously seeking a mutually beneficial arrangement in Kalamazoo, Michigan, United States.

If you are looking to meet a millionaire, or singles who are likely to become a millionaire or billionaire, you may want to try using, where wealthy or beautiful singles meet each other. However, if you are only interested in a mutually beneficial relationship with a millionaire, you may want to try instead of a millionaire dating, millionaire personal, millionaire romance, millionaire love, millionaire matchmaker, millionaire match, millionaire introduction, or millionaire meet services. Millionaire matchmakers, such as or executive matchmaker, charge upwards of $20,000 and are overpriced. For $49.95, you can meet quality singles and millionaires without the use of such upscale matchmaking services with the same, if not better results. Be careful of millionaire dating websites that claim to be sugar daddy dating websites, such as,,, or – these millionaire dating websites are unsure what niche they represent. A millionaire dating website is not a sugar daddy dating website. They are very different. Millionaire dating websites are only for singles and are for those seeking serious relationships. Sugar daddy dating websites on the other hand cater to both singles and married individuals seeking mutually beneficial / no strings attached arrangements.

So what does it take to be classified a millionaire, or someone who is an established single, successful single, upscale single, executive single, wealthy single, or rich single? Obviously, wealth can be subjective just as beauty can be. However, if you are someone who has over $500k in net worth or if you make over $100k a year in annual income, it is fair to suggest that you are wealthy or have the pretty good chance of becoming a millionaire. Another qualification is if you are successful in your career and hold an executive position making over one hundred thousand dollars a year, including Chief Executive Officer (CEO), Chief Financial Officer (CFO), Chief Information Officer (CIO), Chief Investment Officer (CIO), Chief Marketing Officer (CMO), President, Vice President, or General Manager. If you belong to such a group, the internet and more specifically and, offer you an unprecedented opportunity to meet and date gorgeous, beautiful, sexy, cute, attractive, sensual, hot or pretty singles, including but not limited to actors, actresses, models, aspiring models, aspiring actresses, girls next door, playboy playmates, penthouse playmates, dancers, adult entertainers, adult actresses, adult movie stars, artists, college freshmen, college sophomores, college juniors, college seniors or recent high school graduates.

NSA is short for No Strings Attached, and usually referring to no strings attached relationships or no strings attached dating (NSA dating). Typically when someone says he or she is looking for a NSA relationship or NSA arrangement, that usually means they are not ready for commitment, to be tied down, and hence the relationship would likely not end up being serious or a marriage. What no strings attached does not refer to are: No Strings Attached (‘N Sync album), an album by boy band ‘N Sync; No Strings Attached (Meat Puppets album), a 1990 compilation CD by the Meat Puppets; No Strings Attached (Jassi Sidhu album); No Strings Attached, a comedy tour by comedian Carlos Mencia.

NSA dating or no strings attached dating is one of the main focus of, and our website hosts more members seeking NSA relationships in Kalamazoo, Michigan, United States than any other online dating websites. Other commonly used terms in Sugar dating are – GFE which is short for Girl Friend Experience, and BFE which is short of Boy Friend Experience. While mostly an abbreviation used by Escorts and Johns, the term is also often used by those searching for intimate sugar daddy and sugar baby relationships. Usually those looking for GFE dating are seeking NSA dating, and likewise those looking for BFE dating are seeking NSA relationships. GFE personals, BFE personals or NSA personals is one of the main focus of

It appears that GFE can be an acronym or abbreviation for many different things. GFE can mean Good Faith Estimate, Government-Furnished Equipment, Grantmakers for Education, Graphical Forecast Editor, Google Front End (Google web server), Generic Front End, Gas Free Engineer, Group Format Error, Gesellschaft f√ºr Forschung und Entwicklung (German), Good for Everything, Groningen Fitness Test for the Elderly, General Fund Exempt, Go Fat Early, Grooming Fabric Edge. However, on SeekingArrangement, GFE means Girl Friend Experience. The “girlfriend experience” generally involves more personal interaction than a traditional call girl or escort offers. Advertising a “girlfriend experience” is sometimes used by call girls to promote business. Please note that does not permit prostitutes or escorts from using our website, hence our definition of GFE and BFE is different. Here GFE and BFE means NSA – or no strings attached relationships.

Something similar to this is shown in the Charles Bronson film, The Mechanic and the Burt Reynolds film, Sharky’s Machine. A corresponding term (used to describe a client who acts as a lover instead of merely a participant in a commercial transaction) is “BFE” or “boyfriend experience.” “PSE” or Porn Star Experience is where the service provider will sometimes allow photos or video to be taken or to act like a porn star for a client and the sex acts are un-covered (no condom). is the largest sugar daddy and sugar baby discreet dating website and discreet personals in Kalamazoo, Michigan, United States. Discreet dating, discreet encounters, discreet affairs, discreet arrangement, discreet love, discreet relationship, discreet romance, or discreet girlfriend, are all secretive dating where participants are careful to avoid embarrassment since they are dealing with private matters requiring secrecy. The market for discreet dating is large, in fact there are services such as Alibi Network that is a full service discreet agency providing alibis and excuses for absences. In fact they advertise “Whether you are involved in discreet affairs or you are married and looking to spice up your relationship by spending time with your partner away from the everyday life, we have a solution for you.”
Discreet dating may also be referred to as confidential dating, confidential relationship, confidential affairs, confidential romance, confidential mistress or confidential girlfriend. To be involved in discreet dating, one has to be extremely secret about it. Meeting in another small town; getting separate rooms in a large hotel; not letting on you know the person if you are at same event they are. In other words, short of having the odd “squeak between the sheets” you don’t know each other out in public or at the workplace. Discreet dating sometimes occurs at the workplace when two people who are not supposed to get involved romantically did so. For example, in the case of an affair between a professor and his student, or a love affair between a boss and his secretary, participants need to keep their dating discreet so no one finds out.

Check out the Seeking Arrangement Blog for more discussion on issues related to discreet dating in Kalamazoo, Michigan, United States. Advice you will find include the pros and cons of discreet arrangements, how to keep discreet relationships working, how to end discreet affairs, and how to make discreet dating work when one or both are married. One of the biggest problems with most discreet dating websites is that they do not screen for scammers or spammers, and as a result, users are often bombarded with spam from girls seeking customers for their discreet chat, or discreet webcam services. While adult chat or adult webcam services may be fun, it is not the type of discreet dating or discreet relationships most people are looking for. As such, we suggest trying, where all members are carefully screened, and hence you will always be meeting someone who is likeminded in their search for a discreet relationship, discreet affair, discreet encounter, or discreet adventure.

Married dating in Kalamazoo, Michigan, United States. About 40-50% of the sugar daddies on are married but looking, or are married seeking an extra-marital affair or a mistress lover. Unlike other married dating websites such as or or, does not exclusively cater to married dating or cheating arrangements. But, since an arranged relationship does sometime involve married people, it’s not surprising many who are married but looking use our website in search of their perfect discreet affair. Our founder is often asked by the Media if he supports extramarital affairs – his answer is that while he does not make any moral judgments, he notes that married dating isn’t for everyone. However, that said, does have 50-60% of single, divorced or widowed sugar daddies participating. It is also important to note that approximately 10-15% of members on a regular dating site, such as or are in fact married and looking, except they lie about their real married status.

An affair is sometimes referred as a form of nonmonogamy, infidelity or adultery. Where an affair lacks both overt and covert sexual behavior and yet exhibits intense or enduring emotional intimacy it may be referred to as an emotional affair, platonic love, or a romantic friendship. Other terms that describes an affair, include discreet affair, private affair, office affair or a secret affair. An affair also may be referred to as sex with the opposite sex dramatically. Affair may also describe part of an agreement of an open marriage, such as swinging, which sanctions some forms of extramarital sex and and not others. When one of the non-sanctioned affairs occurs it is described as infidelity and often experienced as a betrayal both of trust and integrity. Also: emotional affair, infidelity, adultery, cheating, mistress (lover), friendship, platonic love, or romantic friendship.

We have interviewed many married sugar daddies and married sugar babies, as to why they seek a married affair. The average married sugar daddy tells us he is bored, or that sexual passion no longer exist in his marriage, that having an extramarital affair or engaging in married dating is the only way he is going to be able to stay with his wife. Yet, other married sugar daddy claims having a discreet affair helps add spice to his married life, so all in all, married dating helps him stay in his marriage. The married sugar baby usually has a different reason for engaging in such tryst. She still loves her husband, but is looking for fun on the side, or her extramarital arrangement allows her to help her family out financially. In a recent survey conducted by Harvard, over 60% of its alumni claimed to have had an extramarital affair at least once or have considered cheating while married. It seems married dating and discreet affairs are much more popular than we all think.

If you are going to consider married dating in Kalamazoo, Michigan, United States, we suggest using for a number of reasons. On SA, members are able to have extramarital affairs without any strings attached. The last thing a person wants in a married dating scenario is to have one or more parties fall in love. An arrangement by its nature allows both parties to specify exactly what they look for in an extramarital affair, while avoiding the things they do not want – clinginess, attachment, or dependencies. Married dating is usually conducted as discreet affairs or secret affairs. Being discreet or secretive is what makes cheating all the more exciting, and one of the main reasons why many people engage in extramarital affairs or extramarital tryst. In addition, SeekingArrangement provides many privacy and discreet features to allow cheaters the ability to keep their affairs secret.

Looking for a casual encounter in Kalamazoo, Michigan, United States? provides the largest selection of wealthy and gorgeous people in Kalamazoo, Michigan, United States looking for casual relationships, casual dating, casual arrangements, casual encounters, discreet encounters, casual sex, casual friendship, or casual affairs. Unlike other casual encounters website such as,,, or, is the only casual dating website to exclusively cater to wealthy and gorgeous people looking for a flirtatious fling.

Casual encounters or casual sex, refers to certain types of sexual activity outside the context of a romantic relationship. The term is not always used consistently: some use it to refer to any extramarital sex, some use it to refer to sex in a casual relationship, whereas others reserve its use for one-time encounters (such as one night stands), promiscuity, or to refer to sex in the absence of emotional attachment or love (e.g., NSA or no strings attached relationship). Another term for casual encounters is a hookup which refers to casual sex activity. An extended hookup sometimes refers to prolonged instances of casual sex interactions. This is a situation in which the involved parties occasionally meet for casual sex multiple times, always without a long-term commitment. This is a casual relationship specifically for sex and without any emotional aspect. Other colloquial terms used to describe two people engaged in a relationship in which there is no emotional but purely sexual involvement are fuck buddies, one night stands, one night love, friends with benefits, and booty call.

The reason so many people in Kalamazoo, Michigan, United States seek casual encounters vary from individual to individual. But is the best dating website for those wanting casual affairs and discreet encounters. Those seeking casual dating typically need extra excitement in their life. Originally, a one-night stand referred to a single night theatre performance, usually by a guest group on tour. Today, however, the term is more commonly understood as a single sexual encounter or casual encounter between individuals, where neither individual has any immediate intention or expectation of establishing a long-term sexual or romantic relationship.

One night stands are commonly frowned upon in society because they have potential to ruin a person’s reputation, it having the same negativity as adultery or fornication. Individuals participating in a one-night stand typically have not known each other long and have had minimal time to get to know each other before engaging in sexual activity. A one-night sexual encounter is not necessarily always a one-night stand; the crucial distinction is the expectation or intention that the relationship will not necessarily be extended beyond the initial sexual encounter. A one-night stand is differentiated from prostitution, as it takes place without direct payment of money and from a casual relationship, which may not initially involve sex and may continue long-term. A one-night stand can be thought of as an irregular and unplanned sexual encounter between individuals. The participants will usually have little or no contact with one another aside from sex. Thus it is possible to have multiple one-night stands with the same person, provided that there is no regularity to the encounters or planning involved in the casual encounters. However, where the people involved have a regular sexual relationship without romantic involvement, this is generally considered a casual encounter or casual relationship (also referred to using terms such as “no strings attached” or “friends with benefits” or a “fuck buddy”), and is generally considered distinct from the one-night stand phenomenon.

On, you will see the field “Desired Allowance” or “My Budget”. What is an allowance? Well, let’s start first by defining what an allowance is not. An allowance is not money in exchange for sex. That would be prostitution and is strictly forbidden on our website. An allowance is a term coined up by us to mirror the allowance a parent gives to their child or children. Since we use the terminology of a sugar daddy and a sugar baby, the term allowance ended up being the perfect phrase suggesting the caring relationship between a “daddy” and a “baby”.

The sugar daddy budget and the sugar baby allowance has always been a matter for heated discussion and debate. But the budget or the allowance isn’t a cash payment. Rather it’s the disposable income the sugar daddy has, and that he is willing to spend each month on his sugar lifestyle, i.e., going out on dates, transportation, or helping his sugar baby with her credit card bills, college tuition, utility bills, car loans, rent, etc. While there have been many successful arrangements forged on, we have also been told many horror stories of fake sugar daddies who promises his sugar babies the world, only to never be heard of again once he gets what he wants. So for the sugar babies who are expecting a rent free arrangement, or having her bills paid on time monthly, its important to work on your relationship with a sugar daddy first. A real sugar daddy who is a gentleman will not ask for sex on the first date, and if he does, he’s probably a John, not a sugar daddy. However, that said, it’s also important to note that many sugar babies aren’t really genuine sugar babies looking to find sugar relationships.

The real sugar daddy is a gentleman who understands that intimacy comes after building trust, respect and mutual chemistry. The real sugar daddy has a real budget, i.e., real disposable income he can spend each month to pamper his sugar baby. For those sugar babies out there, do be honest about what you are looking for. If you want some tuition assistance or someone to provide a scholarship for your college, say so, so the right college sponsor with the right budget can offer you an allowance for your college or provide you with a scholarship to complete your degree. If you want to have your rent paid, or to live rent free, then say you want a sponsor for your rent, or a benefactor who will pay your rent, then say so. The more straightforward about what you want, then the more likely you are to meet the sugar daddy who will give you what you desire. But the most important rule is to build friendship and trust first, and do not sleep with the potential sugar daddy on the first date or even on the second date. In fact, don’t even start a sexual relationship with a potential sugar daddy until he actually becomes a sugar daddy, meaning either pay two semesters of your tuition, signs an agreement to provide scholarship, or sign his name for a 6 months lease on your apartment. Similarly, we ask sugar daddies never to send money to any potential sugar baby who asks for money up front.

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